So you go on many dates and never get a
call for a second? Your personality may not make them weak in the knees or it
could be that your dating style is damaged. Do you have a bad habit of dating?
Here is how to change it:
Habit # 1 Dating When You're a Rebound
There's nothing wrong with finding love
after you lose it, but if you are still upset than before, do not go out
immediately. Your heart needs time to heal and relax a little. Dating on the
rebound equal to go shopping when you're hungry, you want everything in sight
and after you go home with your new purchase, you regret never having seen the
way they are.
If you have just broken up with someone,
wallowing in the pain and despair but keep in mind that it is temporary. You
WILL wake up one morning to find that it's okay. Instead, break bad dating
habits by allowing yourself to be yourself for a while. Develop your talent,
get a makeover, taking cello lessons you always dreamed to get. These
activities not only take your mind off your desire to date, they also produce a
better you.
Habits # 2 Dating Just to Prove You Can
If you play one-upmanship game with your
best friend, your own sake, stop it. This is a bad habit of dating. Too many
dating can make you look like a player and it makes you look cheap and easy,
something that would not be good for your reputation. Refrain for now just to
get your score one more thing. Looking for quality not quantity.
Habit # 3 Expect Too Much
Do not expect the person is out of date
to be The One. Enjoy the date for what it is; date. If you see the date as a
way to get to happily ever after, you will stretch yourself too much and expect
too much from others.
Instead, try to keep it light. Go out,
have a lot of time, open to possibilities but not overreact to small things. If
you do not go on a second date with that person, it will not hurt their
feelings, and you can just write it off as your date to enjoy but it's over and
you move on. Change bad habits and your date will enjoy your future date even
more.
